Student F
Being chosen as a member of the LRC in my matric year was one of the most humbling and exciting experiences of my high school career. On the final assembly of our grade 11 year, my friends and I eagerly awaited the results as the names were called out in alphabetical order. The excitement that surged though my body came to a halt when I realized that none of my friends were not going to be in the committee.
I was faced with dealing with so many emotions, and knowing how much this had meant to each of them made me realize that it would change the way we would relate to each other. After two weeks of not communicating with each other we decided to sit down and talk about what this would mean for us as friends. In that situation, what and how I communicated would either build or harm the relationship between us. I took charge through two-way communication, much of it was nonverbal. Doing this reflected an honorable characteristic and selflessness. I had to concentrate on who I was, the task ahead and being able to implement, motivate, and provide direction for what I wanted to see.
I endeavored to foster a team environment in which all us could reach our highest potential, both as team members and as friends. This helped rid us of the defensiveness, superiority complexes and egos would lead to conflict. Instead we encouraged each other to reach our individual goals as effectively as possible, while also having the time of our lives. They were able to actively participate in the LRC body; I expressed their views and ideas and gave them feedback. This behavior wins trust, loyalty, and ensures effective communication.
I can say that this experience has taught me that true friendship goes beyond the pursuit of self. I have learned to have the perseverance to accomplish a goal, regardless of the seemingly insurmountable obstacles. I have learned the ability to display sincerity, humility, integrity, and candor in all my actions. I was able to display a good sense of character composed of beliefs, values, skills, and traits. I learned to display empathy by being sensitive to the feelings, interests, and well-being of others and use sound judgment to make a good decision at the right time.
